Billy and Kristin Byrnes lived in our
house and worked in the community of San Nicolas for the 1.5 years
before we got here. They taught English at the high school, taught
religion and catechism classes at the church, worked on the organic
farm La Garnacha, and became an integral part of the community
through their many friendships with people in town. You still hear
their San Nicolas joint name (BeelyKreesteen) pronounced all the
time, and people often get their gringos confused and call Davie
“Billy.”
Anyhow, Billy and Kristin left San
Nicolas last June with a baby in the belly and some big shoes for us
to fill. William, junior was born in October right when we arrived,
so this visit eight months later was the first overlap we had with
Billy and Kristin in this place that has come to mean so much for all
of us.
When we heard that Billy and Kristin
were coming to visit San Nicolas, we couldn't wait to tell people,
knowing how excited everyone would be. Our across-the-street
neighbors immediately leaped upon the idea of planning a surprise
party for them on the night that they arrived. So we spent the week
before they got here running across the street to ask what kind of
dessert we should make, and who was going to make the welcome sign
and how would we know what time they got into town? Having a mutual
secret is always a great way of bonding, and by the time Billy,
Kristin, and William stepped into the dark room to a chorus of
“Sorpresa!” we had already become better friends with our
neighbors.
During the next few days with the
Byrnes family, we ate a lot of root vegetables, watched the final San
Nicolas baseball game of the season, watched a lot of San Nicolaseños
dote on the cute gringo baby, and witnessed countless reunions of
people so happy to see Billy and Kristin and meet their
made-in-Nicaragua baby son. People killed chickens and pigs to make
special-occasion dishes for their special visitors, and we were lucky
enough to be invited to some of these meals too. It was a whole
weekend long of celebration.
We also got some quality time to sit
down with Billy and Kristin to talk about our experience,
commiserating on the parts that have been difficult and celebrating
the joys of living in this community. Here are a few reflections that
came out of those conversations:
- Though our work here is not always countable (many of the kids at the high school know no more English now than they did when Billy and Kristin started teaching), what is just as important are the friendships nurtured visiting someone's farm way out in the campo or asking someone to teach us how to make a traditional Nicaraguan dish. In these instances of cultural sharing lies the love which is at the core of our service.
- We will keep making friends and experiencing these moments throughout the rest of our almost 1.5 years left here in San Nicolas. Just because our time here has an expiration date, that doesn't mean that we will hit a point in which we need to stop making friends and drop into a more strict routine.
- We have developed our own niche in this community. Much of our experience is similar to Billy and Kristin's, but we have been able to share our unique gifts and interests in different ways that are specific to who each of us is.
It was a great weekend spent getting to
know both Billy and Kristin and the people of San Nicolas a little
better. We are so grateful to the Byrnes for their great precedent of
work in San Nicolas and for all of their support of us and our work
too.
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